How to Be in Command When You are NOT in Control

Being on this planet is about learning, not about changing the rules of the planet. We need to make the best of every situation and learn to walk a very fine line to do whatever we can to in a sense take control even though we maybe do not have it. Once across the line, however, it is best to accept the circumstances, learn from them, consider what to do differently next time, and go to a higher altitude to gain perspective. The end result is building stronger muscles to be purposeful, deliberate, and conscious of our impact on others ? here, now, present.